30 June 2011 – Remaining Positive (Cancer and Me 16)
I got back into job-hunting around the same time as the house move, and eventually found a short-term contract role to start in June 2011. By that stage I had not been in paid employment, apart for one month in December 2009, for 27 months. People sometimes ask me how I have remained positive throughout…
6 February 2011 – Never the Same Again (Cancer and Me 15)
One of the things that seems true about a brush with cancer is that afterwards, even with a good outcome, you see things differently. Your whole attitude changes. It is true in my case that my faith was strengthened. It’s also true, although I know that perhaps I can’t generalize for everyone, that there were…
10 July 2010 – The Good News and the Recovery (Cancer and Me 14)
I had a CT scan in between the 4th and 5th cycle of chemo, which was to check that the treatment was having the desired effect. That showed encouraging signs. In fact there was not much left of the enlarged lymph nodes that had been visible only 4 months earlier. One other thing they spotted…
30 June 2010 – Getting Through Chemo (Cancer and Me 13)
I should say a few things about the side effects of chemotherapy, although it is impossible to generalize. Each regimen is different, and every patient slightly different. The biggest impact, really, was having to be careful about coming into contact with other people, and the risk of picking up infections. R-CHOP does deplete your white…
28 February 2010 – Coping as a Family (Cancer and Me 12)
If I may be permitted to pause to widen my view a little, I was not the only one that was affected by my illness. I’ve been focused on myself so far. It was actually my observation that it was a lot harder on Heidi and others than it was for me. For me I…
17 February 2010 – Home at Last (Cancer and Me 11)
Having found what was wrong with me the doctors were now confident that I would show rapid improvement. They had been confident at each stage up to that point too, but this time they had pieced together from a wide variety of diagnostics. A fair number of times between first seeing the GP on 22nd…
10 February 2010 – Chemotherapy for the First Time (Cancer and Me 10)
The weekend before chemo was lined up to start I was told that I could go home for the weekend. I wasn’t to go out anywhere, but I was essentially stable and nothing much was going to happen over the weekend (weekends are generally dead boring in hospital, as most functions are closed except for…
7 February 2010 – Mentally Preparing for Treatment (Cancer and Me 9)
During that period between initial diagnosis and the start of treatment there was a whole load of information to take on board at the same time as dealing with whatever new tests cropped up each day. The hospital was very well geared up for support on this front, in my view. Within 24 hours of…
31 January 2010 – Before Starting Treatment (Cancer and Me 8)
When you get diagnosed with cancer the doctors want to start treating you straight away, but there are various protocols to complete before that can happen. In my case, first of all, they needed to complete the biopsy to confirm what type and stage of lymphoma I had. Lymphoma has two main types – Hodgkin’s…
27 January 2010 – The Waiting and The News (Cancer and Me 7)
I was aware that the OGD incorporated a biopsy, but I didn’t really know what they needed a biopsy for. By that stage I was just thinking that they were doing all the tests they could think of and trying to keep an open mind. Certainly they weren’t telling me anything. The surgical doctors stopped…